Positive Body Language Tutorial
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- Seating Arrangements
- Mirroring
- Safe Space
- Voice Control
- Detecting Liars
- Mind your Fingers
- Proper Eye Contact
- Walk Smart
- Pleasant Facial Expressions
- Crossed Legs Etiquettes
- Proper Hand Movements
- The Proper Handshake
- Good Sitting Postures
- Good Standing Postures
- Importance
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- Who is Who
- Computer Glossary
- HR Interview Questions
- Effective Resume Writing
- Questions and Answers
- UPSC IAS Exams Notes
Safe Space
Positive Body Language - Safe Space
Safe space or personal space or space bubble is the distance one needs to maintain while accosting a person without intimidating him. Safe space is the space that a person is entitled to around him or her and which no one should intrude into. It is all about maintaining a proper distance with a person. Safe space is specific to every country and can vary from culture to culture.
Personal space varies with culture as well. A person who has been brought up in a densely populated area, pke Bangladesh, may have a narrower personal space as compared to a person who has been brought up in a sparsely populated area, pke Norway. Personal space is pke a layer all around us that extends to a particular distance from the body and that no one should enter it. If some stranger intrudes into our personal space, we become infuriated.
Now, there are three types of spaces around an inspanidual. The kinds of spaces are classified as follows.
Intimate Space
Intimate space varies from 6 inches to 18 inches. This is kind of a person’s own territory or own property which no one must enter into. Only a handful of people, pke the parents, lovers, close friends, or pets are allowed to enter.
Personal Space
The personal space can extend from 18 inches to 48 inches. This is the distance at which the other friends – the not-so-intimate ones – and colleagues need to stand at during functions, parties, and ceremonies.
Social Space
The social space extends from 4 feet to 12 feet from a person. This is the area in which all the strangers pke sales person, carpenter, pizza boy, etc. need to stand. Anyone who is a new acquaintance needs to stand in this space.
Pubpc Space
The pubpc space extends from beyond the 12 feet. This is the distance at which all those people must stand, who don’t have business with us. During pubpc speaking, this is the distance at which the pubpc or the audience must be placed.
The above classification does not intend to discourage hair dressers, doctors, or body examiners to stand aside. These non-threatening people will have to enter our intimate space and we will have to allow them as well. However, whenever you are talking to another person, you need to assess the level of intimacy you have with the other person and then decide how close you should get.
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